Do What I Say: Ms. Behavior's Guide to Gay and Lesbian Etiquette* by Meryl Cohn
Ms. Behavior -- far hipper than Ann, Abby, or even Miss Manners -- has crafted an indispensable blueprint for the subtleties of gay life.
"Even though I failed the lesbian test, I loved Do What I Say." --Rita Mae Brown, author of Ruby Fruit Jungle
"Although it does offer advice on depilatories, dental dams, and how to cruise the locker room at your gym, Ms. Behavior's guide isn't so much a book of manners as a tongue-in-cheek tour through the contemporary gay and lesbian cultural landscape. Meryl Cohn is a shrewd, witty observer who knows when to balance the role of savvy sophisticate with that of a shocked lady. A fresh and Funny book." --Stephen McCauley, author of The Object of My Affection
"Ms. Behavior is the dominatrix of gay and lesbian etiquette. She'll make you mind your manners and like it." --Bob Smith, author of Growing up Gay
*#1 Best Selling Book, The Advocate (Houghton-Mifflin)